If a ex- boyfriend calls you after 5 months what do that mean?
Posted by admin on Tuesday, 10 March, 2009 @ 9:49 pm
satin r asked:
My ex-boyfriend called me yesterday after five months when i found out that he had a girlfriend while going with me. I dont understand why he would call me after all this time because i dont think i meant much to him? So can ppl please help me to understand why all of a sudden he wants to talk to me when he is still with her.
My ex-boyfriend called me yesterday after five months when i found out that he had a girlfriend while going with me. I dont understand why he would call me after all this time because i dont think i meant much to him? So can ppl please help me to understand why all of a sudden he wants to talk to me when he is still with her.
March 12th, 2009 at 4:24 pm
He wants to hit it, of course.
This isn’t exactly hard to figure out.
March 15th, 2009 at 12:55 am
if the called just to say hi them maybe he just wanted to see if you are doing well
March 17th, 2009 at 8:14 pm
i reallly dont know why guys r just weid probably he understoood that he lost somebody dat he really like n it was u. dat sometimes happends he miss u.
March 18th, 2009 at 5:43 pm
because he feels like he cant have u now and people want what they cant have
March 21st, 2009 at 4:33 pm
booty call. guys r jerks…
edit: not ALL guys r jerks. but to eric, the first guy who responded…hes got the right idea too.
March 23rd, 2009 at 11:35 am
Prob wants to just keep you thinking. Clearly its working if your questioning it on here. He screwed you, you shouldnt of answered cuz now that just f-ed up ur New Year’s eve.
March 23rd, 2009 at 5:55 pm
this one’s easy….He’s looking for a re-bound because his other girlfriend he was seeing probably dumped him. Screw him..there’s plenty of fish in the sea.
March 25th, 2009 at 5:06 am
Because he wants to have his cake and eat it! Ignore him, eventually he’ll get the message. He just thinks that you’re so desperate to see him that you’ll put up with his infidelity. You gotta feel sorry for his other girlfriend. He’s just a loser and you’re much better off without him.
March 26th, 2009 at 9:09 pm
Because of the wonderful
things he does
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April 1st, 2009 at 12:53 am
he wants ur attention, he might be inlove with you but instead he’s wid dat girl to get u jealous….
since you pay him no mind..he got the nerve to call you after five months..
well then just do whatever you feel like and say watever is in ur mind.
April 3rd, 2009 at 11:50 pm
It’s over with the other girl and he’s lonely and hard up and can’t find anyone else to give him the time of day.
Don’t be a doormat and have some self-respect. Your instincts are correct, you didn’t mean that much to him. You are not some toy on a string that he can just pull when he’s bored with his other toys. Find someone that values you. It’s not him. Blow him off and let him have a taste of his own medicine. It’s good for him.
April 6th, 2009 at 5:38 am
lol I did that with my ex until she told me I will call the police if you ever call me again. I called her cause she meant a lot to me and wanted to know how she was doing we lived together for 2.5 years though I dont know about your situation.
April 9th, 2009 at 8:41 am
Never underestimate the power of guilt. You think you didnt mean much to him? Are you sure about that? By him calling, there is a big chance that he probably feels sorta guilty that he two timed you. Only cold hearted bastards would do such a thing and not flinch at all, and through my experience, im starting to see that there are less of those than we may think. What we do have on the other hand, is a world filled with people with insecurities, and those that let their insecurities get the best out of them.
He maybe wanted to hear that you are ok in your voice or something, that you havent taken it personally and that you dont hate him. The fact that you arent talking to him and he doesnt know anything about you makes him fear that you hate him, and that could be eating him up alive. He might have had some memories shared with you, and he keeps replaying them in his head and just realizes that he misses you and he was an ass to you.
I am not sure if you are over him at this point, or what ur feelings are towards him. I hope that him calling you is something that makes u realize that how weak he was with you and give you that last push to get over him completely and forgive him for whats hes done, and not get you to relapse and enter a state of confusion and misery.
Hope this helps, have a great 2009
April 12th, 2009 at 10:27 pm
i have split with my bf over a week ago he made out it was all my fault and told me its over only to find out he was seeing this guy he met at a service station toilets and the nyte b4 he came down mine and finished me i found out the lad was sleeping at his house, we were a gay couple but it hurts so mutch we wer togever 4 4years and he is not hurting at all and it realy hurts me…